Monday, December 3, 2012

Checking in - just random tid bits

Just some random tid-bits:

Thanks Giving was a nice break. I missed seeing my first girl through most of it though due to sleeping miss-matches. That made me sad. Girl number two was out of town.

I've been sick (flu or cold) for a couple of weeks. Last of that is clearing up now. Feeling about 98% better today. Yay!

Had a major cry this last week-end over multiple issues and stressors that had been building. It was needed and helped, and that conversation cleared up a confusion between girl number two and me.

Ummm  Christmas shopping is nearly completed. Kind of. Once I get started I feel like I'm never done because I always find one more thing... But never have the money to feel finished. So at some point I just stop and say it's good enough and let myself off the hook.

Two of my kids have birthdays this month. Sad I can't be there for them. December sucks!

We've had a trio for months that are the "most out" - now Beast seems to have really solidified and enjoys coming out. He's been growing... He's not really happy with some limitations in our life - specifically around money, living location, and such. He's very irrational in his solutions. So there's some internal conversations going on around how to solve some urgent issues.

We haven't been uncontrollably spinny for a while and no one new has shown up for a while. Yay!

Last night the trio were having a conversation and telling a story, in a sense, about our perspective of something we did sexually. We all had different "concerns" around it. It felt good for everyone to be heard. It's something that is a delicate balance and some boundries and definitions of what it is and isn't needed to be ironed out.  But we were working together on it instead of one getting their way and others just having to deal.